How to be More Attractive in Minutes (Good Looking vs. Looking Good)

There is a misconception that the good looking guys get all the girls. The truth is that guys who look good get the girls. And luckily for us we don’t have to be good looking to look good. There are 5 key factors that contribute to looking good and they are: hair/grooming, clothes, body language, personal hygiene, and scent.

Depending on which hairstyle you have it can either make or break your look. So it’s important to pick a haircut that suite your face and compliments your features. Unfortunately there isn’t a universal hairstyle that works for everyone. I studied the correlation between facial structure and hair, and have tried 5 different hairstyles in the past 2 years. So I am confident to say that you won’t be disappointed when I give you my advice.

Even though women have mixed feeling when it comes to facial hair, beards are in. But if you do decide to grow a beard, make sure it’s well trimmed and maintained. You can go from sexy to homeless real quick. We will talk about “Manscaping” and waxing later. Let’s move on to clothing.

Believe it or not usually the first thing a girl notices on a guy is his shoes. Are they clean? Do they look new? A lot can be said about a person based on how he takes care of his shoes. Now let’s talk about clothing.  So the key is to dress well but with a little edge.

My personal favorite is accessorizing. The idea is to standout subtly, without trying too hard. I’ve received many remarks from random girls complimenting my outfits. Just like an interesting tattoo, it’s a great conversation started for sure.

90% of communication is non-verbal. 70% of it is body language. So we have to understand the signals that our bodies are sending out. For example, good posture= confidence, and good health. Which subconsciously making us look and feel more attractive.

Gentlemen please shower AND brush your teeth before you go out, nothing turns a woman off quicker than body odor and bad breath. Dab a little something something before you leave too. Good cologne separates the men from the boys. Think about it when we smell good, girls want to get close to us, and good things usually happen after that. (Don’t over spray, after a while our noses get desensitized to the smell of our colognes.)

Once you’ve mastered all 5 of these, you will stand out amongst a group of average men, and will draw the attention of your desired female.

Aisen Li