My Story

My name is Aisen Li from Austin, TX and I’m a dating coach helping Asian men overcome limited beliefs, racial barriers and find love.

My mother actually calls me the Asian Hitch lol.

However before I found my true calling in life, I was actually and running a marketing business and modeling in L.A..

So how did this 𝙁𝙤𝙧𝙢𝙚𝙧 𝙈𝙤𝙙𝙚𝙡 turned 𝙎𝙢𝙖𝙡𝙡 𝘽𝙪𝙨𝙞𝙣𝙚𝙨𝙨 𝙊𝙬𝙣𝙚𝙧 turn into a 𝘿𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝘾𝙤𝙖𝙘𝙝 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝘼𝙨𝙞𝙖𝙣 𝙈𝙚𝙣?

Wtf, like none of those things are related lol.  How did this happen???

To understand that, we have to go back to the beginning…

You see, when I was 9 years old, my family and I moved to America.

So growing up I was this shy, introverted, scrawny kid with pimples who did his homework and kept to himself. 

And coming from an Asian family, I wasn’t taught about dating, or even how to talk to the opposite gender. As a matter of fact my parents didn’t even support me dating until I was 18. Yet still expected me to get married right after college. Madness right?

So needless to say I was really bad with girls in the beginning, being in the same room as a girl made me uncomfortable. I wanted to talk to them, but didn’t know where to start.

I was extremely awkward and tried so hard to get girls to like me, and would even get frustrated when the girls I liked were into guys who didn’t seemed to try at all. It just wasn’t fair.

Even after I started working out and developing my body, I looked better, but I still didn’t know how to talk to girls and would feel left out when my friends started dating and getting into relationships.

Therefore I had to learn as much as I could on the subject by reading books, watching videos and buying courses on how to communicate and talk to women.

I’ve spend years, thousands of dollars, lots of trial and errors, tons of rejections, embarrassments and countless failed texts.

It took me so long to figuring out what worked and what didn’t, but I was finally able to start understanding women and started attracting beautiful women into my life. (Thank God)

Since then my life has changed dramatically for the better, I was no longer scared to talk to attractive girls, I started going on date with girls that would have been out of my league, and had girls who rejected me in the past asking me out.

I even started getting multiple high-quality matches daily on dating apps, and even getting hit on by girls when I’d go out with my friends.

Through this journey I’ve be able to meet some really amazing people got into some really great relationships where I learned so much and grew as a person. 

I am now able to live the life I’ve always wanted.  Going on 2-3 dates every week with beautiful, intelligent women and best of all I get to help others do the same.

Really feels like all the opportunities in the world have opened up and now the possibilities are endless.

However this is not the case for a lot of the Asian guys I’ve met. 

I’ve seen way too many guys with similar upbringings, awesome careers, and just overall amazing people, like the kinds of guys you’d want your daughters dating, yet still face the same issues that I’ve faced when it comes to dating. It’s terrible.

Just terrible. 

That’s why I’ve been committed to helping as many Asian guys as I can take their love lives to the next level and start meeting their soulmates WITHOUT being pickup artists. 

After all everyone deserves to be happy and find love.

That’s me in a nutshell haha. 

Thanks for reading it all the way through and ignore the grammar errors. (English was not my first language)

Feel free to send me a friend request, I love connecting with like minded people.

Also feel free to message me if you wanna talk, I love helping people.

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