Does Money Matter When It Comes to Dating?​

​The short answer is not as much.​

I’ve met & dated the same types of high-quality women whether I’m unemployed, making 6 figures/year earner, or in massive debt, and I mean MASSIVE haha.​

Why? Because women are not attracted to my money or lack thereof haha. These high-quality, successful women are attracted to their male counterparts, someone who is intelligent, ambitious, and MOST IMPORTANTLY someone they can relate to (even if the financials don’t quite reflect that). ​

As a matter of fact, I rarely talk about money, because it doesn’t define me as a person and no one ever asks.​

On the other hand, when someone uses their “prestigious” job or money as a crutch, and I’m sure you already know the answer to this, they’re not going to attract the right type of girls.​

The truth of the matter is, MONEY IS ONLY IMPORTANT TO WOMEN WITH LITTLE OR NO MONEY.​

And let me ask you this, if a woman is only with you for the money, is that really the person you think is gonna make you happy? ​

What do you think is gonna happen when you don’t have the money anymore? 

What if she finds someone richer than you? ​

And don’t get me started on the event of a divorce. 💸​

To further illustrate my point, if a woman is successful and well off, she doesn’t care nearly about how much you earn, but rather she cares more about your other qualities that money can’t buy. ​

I don’t know about you, but that’s a damn attractive trait to have and definitely my type of woman right there! ​

In conclusion, money doesn’t matter nearly as much as you think it does.​

The real goal here is to find a woman that is interested in you for the person you are and wants to be with you and grow with you regardless of what’s in your bank account.​

I've encountered so many amazing people with outstanding careers, (100x better than me), yet feel inadequate about themselves.​

But the thing they were missing is that they failed to see the value in themselves, and helping them realize this 1 thing makes a world of difference.​

If you want to know how you can also start meeting & dating like-minded, high-quality women, let’s chat and see if I can help, the call is 100% free

Aisen Li