I’m NOT Interesting Enough for Women to Like Me 😔

Whenever I hear people say “Women don’t like me because I’m not interesting or cool enough”

I'd get sad. Because it's really not that they're not cool or interesting. 

The real reason is that they are not good at connecting with people and relating to their experiences to form common bonds. Aka chemistry.

The key is to be RELATABLE and be able to connect with people on an EMOTIONAL BASIS. Yes, I’m talking about the F word. Feelings hehe 

In fact, a lot of times it’s actually a disadvantage to be “too” interesting because it takes away from being relatable. 

For example, if someone said:

“Every summer we take our chartered jet and spend a week in Monaco, then we jump on our 108ft yacht and sail across the French Rivera.”

That sentence right there just disqualified him from being relatable to 99.99% of the population.

And would make his date feel instantly detached from him.

My point here is that it doesn’t matter if you haven’t experienced the same events as the other person.

As long as you’ve experienced that same emotion, you are able to relate to women by sharing those feelings.

And I’m sure we’ve all experienced: happiness 😄, sadness😢, anger😡, excitement🤩, fear😨, resentment😒, pain😫, joy😎 and shock🤯. 

HOWEVER, just because we’ve all had these feelings before, doesn’t mean we are able to, or feel safe doing express them.

So share a time when you had to overcome a struggle, and I 100% guarantee you that your date is going to relate to that, as most people have to overcome their own struggles. 

And most of all, she will respect you for sharing a vulnerable part of your life. 

After all, it takes being vulnerable and secure to open up and truly express one’s self. That’s why it’s extremely attractive when a man is able to share and be vulnerable. (which is another topic for another day haha)

The big takeaway here is not that you’re not interesting enough, it’s the fact that you have trouble being relatable and connecting with people. 

And we can change that! (faster than you think too)

So if you want to learn how to meet awesome women, and form genuine connections with them. Let’s chat and see if I can help, the call is 100% free