How to NEVER Run Outta Things to Say on Dates

Have you ever been in this situation where you are on a date with this girl.

You find each other attractive but you’re both shy.

So the conversation quickly dies and replaced with awkward silences. Leaving you frantically searching for topics to talk about.

The trick is to not think about what you’re gonna ask, but rather LISTEN to what she’s saying and piggyback off of her responses. Once you start listening to what she’s saying, the conversation just flows.

Women loves a guy that listens, because it shows interest (and the fact that they love to talk haha). And since most guys suck at this. When girls come across someone that listens, they really appreciate it.

Doing just that will make your life easier too, because you don’t have to think about what you’re gonna say, just go more in depth on what she’s saying.

This also drops her guard and opens her up to talk more while building rapport and establishing a connection.

Here’s what I mean.

Let’s say you’re having dinner with her.

You: I like this place, they have the best Mai Tais.

Her: Oh ya?

You: Here try it. [she takes a sip of your drink]

Her: hmmm that’s so good! I think I’m gonna have to get one later haha.

You: Ya I love it, makes me feels like I’m on a tropical beach, in a foreign country, watching the waves and working on my tan.

BTW You have a really nice tan. Are you beach person?

Her: Ya actually, I love going to the beach, but not the beaches here in Texas haha.

You: I feel ya haha, Me too actually! I wish I was in Miami right now, have you been there?

Her: OMG, I love Miami, my best friend lives there. It’s so crazy there though haha.

You: Ya I’ve definitely seen some ratchet shit there, one of our Uber drivers literally tried to kills us lol.

Her: No way? What happened!?

You: [proceed to tell her the story] So what was the craziest thing you’ve ever seen in Miami?

Etc…

There are so many ways you could steer this conversation.

Here are some topics you could talk about:

1. Food

2. Places-Which places have you visited, what’s your favorite place that you’ve visited, what is a place that’s on your bucket list, If you could live in any city…

Hobbies

3. Common experiences